Why is it that when asked a question, if the response isn’t exactly what people want they shut down or end the conversation?
Why can I not seem to have a conversation on a topic I actually know facts about without everything I say being taken out of term or completely wrong? Is talking with me terrible enough that when I say something that ins’t pleasing any more, I instantly put someone into this ‘shut down’ mode?
Lately, some of my conversations with people have been intensely disheartening. When it comes to any kind of topic worth discussion and I put effort into what I am saying people have been turned off or non-responsive to what I am speaking about.. It has gotten to the point where I don’t ever know why I talk about how I feel about a particular topic. Even when I think I can teach a person something, or give an educated explanation.
I don’t understand why anyone would ask a question, if they don’t want an answer to it. And if at some point my explanation got to complicated, or to personal or even to much to handle in general, why does said person not tell me that I am getting carried away?
I guess I am just tired of being asked something. Telling my opinion and then having who ever I am talking to, shun the conversation in complete. Please, save the hassle, my breathe and probably the breathe wasted by whom ever I am speaking to. Ask yourself the question first, if you aren’t pleased with your answer, don’t expect to be pleased with the one I can give you either.
Next time my response will be: Google it.
(This refers to more than one specific conversation had with more than one-two people. Only now making a post about it. About no one person in particular.)